Who's THAT GIRL?
The idea of “Becoming Her” has always seemed overwhelming, especially when I am still figuring out who “Her” is. The first person that comes to mind is always Beyonce. But when I think about the things I like about her, it’s always focused around work, and who wants that? So Beyonce aside, who do I really want to be, what does she look like, what does she think, what routines does she have, how does she feel, what does she wear, what are her hobbies? I’m spending my New Year breaking these thoughts down and hopefully inspiring at least one person to do the same.
How Does She Feel:
How often is gratitude shown?
Is she a please to be around?
Does she complain?
Is she in tune with herself and her thoughts?
Does she enjoy being alone?
Is she a pleasure to be around?
What does she look like?
Put Together
Well groomed
Fitting Clothes
Healthy Skin, teeth. Does she get beauty procedures done?
Good posture
What Routines does she have?
Exercise regularly
Good eating habits
Proper Water intake
Proper amount of sleep
Regular Doctor and Dental check ups
Reads for enjoyment or knowledge regularly
What does her social life consist of?
What does she wear?
Take a look at your closet, does it align with Her?
Does she wear staples?
Do the clothes fit properly?
What are her hobbies?
What keeps Her active?
Does she have a passion project?
What does she do to stimulate her mind?
What do her finances look like:
Does she budget?
Does she save money?
What are her financial priorities?
Does she invest?
What Keeps Her Spiritually Connected?:
What Does her Mental Health Look Like:
Does she journal?
Therapy visits?
Meditate?
Does she journal?
How does she regulate her emotions?
How does she speak to herself?
What do her relationships look like:
How does she relate to her friends?
Does she date?
What is her relationship. with her family?
What does her home look/feel like:
Is she organized?
What does her decor look like?
Is it clean/organized?
Is her space welcoming?
Is comfort prioritized?
There are so many different factors into becoming your dream woman. I created this list to just give myself a jumpstart and implement bite sized tasks to help Her seem more attainable. So many times we have huge goals without properly visualizing and putting together a plan for them. I didn’t want that for this year, every single goal is going to be achieved not only with intention, but to my best ability. I’ll follow up in March & June with my progress and any alterations I may have made in order to properly achieve my goals.
